I have a wonderful husband. He’s been especially thoughtful
and helpful lately with my lack of energy due to little Peapod expanding inside
me and sucking all my life forces. I’m finally through the first trimester,
which gives me hope that I’ll be more… Dawnish
soon.
We were all sick for two weeks around Christmas and New Year’s
and despite Brian’s sickness he has: gotten rid of our big dining room hutch,
installed shelves to hold what used to be in the hutch, put up a whiteboard
that the boys love, put lights in our always-dark living room, put up more
shelves in the boys’ room, and been doing little things like making the boys
elephant toast (with no help from Pinterest, he doesn’t know what that is), his
experimental and delicious mega bacon burgers, his signature mega-awful waffles,
and in general taking care of a lot of our meals. He got up with the boys over
Christmas break while I slept in until morning times that start with 9s and
10s. He takes the boys out so I can nap. Maybe I should be pregnant more often?
Nah.
Brian is a big fan of
de-cluttering, and I also am in theory,
but unfortunately I have a harder time parting with things than he does, and in
buckling down and facing facts such as, our pantry organization makes absolutely no sense anymore, and why do we have fifteen pairs of shoes in
the entryway when we have closets?
With Peapod coming in
July to join our two-bedroom-condo family, all our de-cluttering and
rearranging is with that little bundle in mind. (Small homes grow tight families,
right?) When we first found out that I was pregnant Brian got rid of our
bedroom dressers and put shelves up with boxes, which are now our drawers. (I
have fabric to cover all the boxes and so far have covered three. Oops.) I was
reluctant at first (Aren’t you supposed
to have dressers?), but we now have room for a crib and changing table in our
room and I don’t miss the dressers. He moved our recliner from the living room to
our bedroom, which opened up our living room for the many wrestling matches,
and hockey, baseball, football, and basketball games that spontaneously break
out every day.
Over the break, we kept going. We moved our
forever-cluttered shelf from the entryway into our bedroom. Now there’s
actually room to turn around and take your coat off when you walk in our door. Maybe
even inhale deeply. I cleaned and reorganized our pantry, Brian cleaned our
balcony, and he’s got stars in his eyes thinking about going through our
storage closet to get rid of more stuff. We've made a drop-off run to Goodwill and sent some end tables from the living
room and our bikes to Brian’s parents’ lake house.
This is the kind of constant culling that I think is
necessary to remain sane and generally clean
in a small place. I’m glad I have my handsome, de-cluttering huzz to nudge me to
keep it up.
PS. While I wrote this post he did piles of dishes and
cleared the counters, which confirmed to me that he rocks. And then he asked me to get rid of one of my tea sets, which confirmed to me that I like things.
Here are some pictures of our snug dining room before the re-do:
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See the computer shelves crowding the back corner. |
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Clutter-magnet hutch... |
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I could clean it up...but it still made our dining room tight. |
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Brian took everything out and off, our computer shelves down,
and put the leaf in our table... |
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and put up high shelves, a white board, and a shelf for art supplies. |
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Now Cal can draw ceiling fans to his heart's content. |
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And we can all sit down for dinner comfortably! |
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...and learn numbers and draw monsters.... |
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and make dot-to-dots in Batman masks and capes and
sock gloves... |
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and learn sight words and keep track of fruits and veggies eaten. |
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More shelves in the boys' room |
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and even some above the bookshelf |
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Dad makes elephant toast! |
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Mega bacon cheeseburger (water bottle for scale) |
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Mega double cheeseburger (children for scale) |
Here's a link to our tale of how we got rid of our storage unit a couple years ago.
Yay for awesome husbands! Mine has been Super Dad during my whole sick in bed weekend. :) PS can yours come and install shelves throughout my condo, too?
ReplyDeleteYes! Helpful husbands are the greatest. Haha! I'll send him over for your shelving needs...
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